He sits on the steps leading out of the subway. He wears no shoes and his shirt is pinned together with safety pins. His face is caked with dirt. “Please, please,” he says, to no one in particular. Something about this man makes me want to stop. I do. I look at him and he looks at me. “Please, please,” he continues to say, but this time he sats it to me. I reach into my purse for some money. He reaches out to me and hands ME a dollar bill. “Please, please, will you go over to Burger King and get me a burger.” It doesn’t take much to figure out why he can’t go get his own burger. “They won’t let me in because they say that I stink and I don’t have any shoes.”
I give him back his dollar bill and tell him I’ll go get him a burger. It’s on me. (In hindsight, I wish I had taken his dollar. Not because I needed it, but because this was his way of contributing, of maintaining some shred of dignity.) As I am walking away, he continues to say “Please, please.” I know he is afraid I will not return.
The line at Burger King is long. The service is terrible. The cashiers and cooks are inefficient, spending more time chatting it up with each other than cooking. Frustration grows inside of me. It’s at this point that I know. I know what God is showing me. He’s showing me that serving people takes more than money. It takes time. How easy it would have been to give him some money and move on? God was asking for my time.
I wait for about 15 minutes for his burger. I return to him. “Thank you, thank you. I was afraid you wouldn’t come back.” I tell him that God has used him to teach me a very important lesson. He is unable to fully engage me in conversation, and I move on.



























